according to Ruby

There is a love that makes a way and never holds you back

I’ve been single for around 3 years. Late 2013, for the first time, I prayed to meet a guy na magugustuhan ko for a relationship. Tama na ang pahinga sa lovelife teh :p

January 2014, nakilala ko si Jero. He was introduced by my friend Zha during her daughter's christening. First impression ko? Tahimik. The night after, nag-message sya sa Facebook. Chat chat. Getting to know, etc. etc.

Until napag-usapan namin yung age. I was 29 by then and sya.. 26. Yes, he's 3 years younger. Yung interest and excitement level ko biglang bumaba. Sorry, I have nothing against younger men. It's just that.. baka COC pa iniisip nito, hindi pag-aasawa. Baka hindi mag-match maturity namin. At syempre, his ego. If he’ll pursue, I’ll let him. But I set myself not to have expectations. And no first moves from me.

At some point I was right. He stopped messaging me. Kaya move on..

During the time na hindi kami nag-uusap, napanaginipan ko sya. Same thing happened. Nakilala ko sya then bigla syang nawala. Pero in my dream, I was crying nung umalis sya. I don’t interpret dreams. Pero that time, nag-pray ako na if that was a sign to really give him a chance, I’ll take it.

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according to Jero

There's More To Love Than Fun

“I want a love with a purpose – a love that matters, a love that means something, a love that's moving in a direction – not just a love that's enjoyable but temporary”

In the beginning, I was thinking kung kailan kaya ibibigay ni Lord yung perfect time and person sa buhay ko. As I promised before na sa susunod na relationship ko, it will be my last. So I kept on praying every single day and focus to check my heart and prepare for her heart too para kapag na-meet ko na ang taong yun maramdaman nya that she deserves to be loved. So I put my trust to God sa bagay na iyon kung kailan man nya ibigay para sa akin.

In an unexpected occasion, isa ako sa naimbitahan on a house blessing ng officemate ko na si Gibs Bustamante and his wife Zharina Bustamante, not knowing that day I will meet someone na siyang bibihag sa puso ko - on the other side, unconsciously one of my prayers is finally answered.

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SEPTEMBER 18, 2016


Light of Love - Events Place
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1163 Santol St, Quezon City

Metro Manila, Philippines

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3:30 PM at the Cherish Area


5:00 PM at the Atrium


Semi-formal (preferably shade of peach, gray or skin tone)

Gentlemen: Long-sleeved polo with tie and slacks. Tie is optional.

Ladies: Long or cocktail dress



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